- 8:42 PM What is it...
Some people might say, its undesirable. An urge to keep someone for yourself, as if, you think of them like a possession.
But...I don't think, in a lot of cases, its wanting to keep someone...but, being afraid to lose them. Its not wanting to control somebody...but instead, hoping that their feelings for you will be strong enough to make them control themselves. And maybe being afraid that they aren't.
I propose, that perhaps jealousy should not be seen as a bad trait, but, more of a way to show someone cares. By acting jealous, they're showing how important you are to them. That they don't want to lose you.